Why i am choosing to trust my gut instincts in 2016

So a few weeks into the year and I have already had to really push myself to trust my instincts. Gosh! let me tell you it has not been an easy task especially being worrier like me who has a mini midlife crisis every time I need to make important decisions. my head goes through all the pros and cons of the situation when really I should be listening to how I feel.


You must be wondering 'how did she make the decision to trust her gut then?.....Well following a series of back to back events that happened last year where my gut was right but I opted to go against it, following my head rather than my intuition. I knew for a fact that maybe I was holding myself back from opportunities? Putting myself in potential danger or even worse holding myself back from achieving things that I never thought I could....

Matter of fact my instinct is what told me I should start writing and blogging, so here I am blogging! and it feels good. Decisions should always feel good, no matter what anybody tells you.

It leads me to ask the question where does intuition come from? I believe it is a message from above, from god. We are all born with a guidance systems and this is interpreted by feelings or emotions. If I feel like I shouldn't go somewhere, then you know what? I am not going. If I know I shouldn't be in a friendship with somebody because it feels wrong? Then I'm afraid I will have no choice but to distance myself from that somebody.


I honestly believe that trusting my instincts will NEVER guide me wrong. What's better than that? Knowing that god is guiding you not only takes the pressure off of you, but it also gives you confidence in knowing you are in fact making the right decisions in life.

So join me and go forth into 2016 trusting that little voice, feel free to share your experiences down below in the comments section.

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How To Revitalise Your Boyfriends Beard

Hair on your face or head becomes drier this time of year, my boyfriend has a lustrous beard which needs some extra TLC.

It's January and very cold outside and we all should take extra care of our hair because of the damaging effects of the weather. if you're a man with a full on beard or you're a lady like me who wants to take care of your boyfriends facial hair, here's a 'how to' on softening, moisturising and revitalising your beard.



STEP 1

We need to add moisture! Jump in the shower, bath or under a tap and run/soak your beard under warm or hot water for at least five minutes, ensuring that the hair is fully soaked with water. This will soften the hair for the next step.




STEP 2

Taking your favourite conditioner, apply a generous amount to the beard being sure to fully coat the beard from root to tip, if the beard is curly take a medium tooth comb and gently comb through until comb passes through with ease, this will eliminate tangles and add to the final appearance.

I used Organics Africa's best Hair Mayonnaise, This is some good stuff and works wonders for detangling giving superb slippage! I swear by this stuff.




STEP 3

Place either cling film or plastic cap over the beard, this may seem very strange but ladies assure your men that they will love the results, it acts as a steamer to trap body heat and marinate that beard to soften it, which is exactly what we're going for. Leave on for about an hour.




STEP 4

Wash out the product and add a small amount of a light oil of your choice to finish. and voila!
Here are the results...







My boyfriend loved the results and so did I! His beard was so much softer to touch, shinier and healthier looking. Perfect for snuggling together at home in front of the TV and out of the cold.

Stay Warm!

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